Helping Your Child Deal with Change (Specifically Changing Schools)
“You’re changing schools!” can get a mix of reactions from students. Some may be happy or excited for a change. Others may feel the change is unfair, get angry, or feel sad because they will miss their friends and the place they feel comfortable. They may be worried about making friends or that they may get lost at their new school. They may tell you every single day why they don’t want to change schools and beg you to change your mind (or change the school district’s mind) or they may not say anything at all. Sometimes, it is their behavior that will tell you that they are struggling with this change. Whatever your child is feeling about the change is okay and they need to know that their feelings are validated. Listen. But, they also need to know that change is part of life. We cannot avoid it and it is through change that we grow the most. This is a change we can’t control. ...