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Parents, your mental health, sanity, safety, and family time are more important than your child's NTI/distance learning/virtual learning (whatever it's called in your state). Do what you can. Have your kids do what they can. But, if it's causing you stress, your child's anxiety, etc. it shouldn't. It's okay if you don't get to it. 
Educators, if you think you are going to replace the learning kids would do in a physical school building with all of the staff we have in school and all of the resources we provide kids to be successful, then you are greatly undervaluing what we do each day. You can't expect kids to perform at the same level working from home in high stress with siblings, sharing devices, parents working from home, people getting sick and dying, not being allowed to do the things they love, etc. Adjust your expectations. 
Don't be the teacher (principal, counselor, school district, etc.) that your students and their families remember as adding to their stress during this time with high academic demands and strict grading policies. We'll catch up next school year. Be the teacher that they remember as being empathetic, kind, cheerful, understanding, and still connected and present. 

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